Life is full of uncertainties, and one of the most compassionate things we can do for our loved ones is to prepare for the unexpected. A health care proxy and a Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order are essential documents that allow you to take control of your medical decisions when you may not be able to advocate for yourself. Yet, many people put off these critical tasks, leaving their affairs unfinished.

The truth is, we never know when our time will come. As the Bible reminds us, “But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into. So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him” (Matthew 24:43-44, NIV).

This scripture isn’t just a spiritual warning—it’s a call to take practical steps to prepare for life’s unpredictability. Just as we plan for financial stability or family milestones, we should also prioritize legal and medical arrangements to protect ourselves and our loved ones.

What Are Health Care Proxies and DNRs?

A Health Care Proxy is a legal document that appoints someone you trust to make medical decisions on your behalf if you’re unable to do so. This ensures that your wishes are respected, even in situations where you cannot speak for yourself.

A Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order is a directive that tells medical professionals not to perform life-saving measures, like CPR, if your heart stops. This decision can reflect deeply personal beliefs about quality of life and the kind of care you want to receive in critical situations.

Why You Shouldn’t Wait

Failing to have these documents in place can lead to unnecessary suffering for you and emotional turmoil for your loved ones. In moments of crisis, families are often left guessing about what their loved one would have wanted. This uncertainty can create conflict and guilt that may last for years.

Steps to Get Started

1. Reflect on Your Values: Consider your beliefs about life support, end-of-life care, and quality of life.

2. Choose a Trusted Advocate: Select someone you trust to carry out your wishes and have a conversation with them about your decisions.

3. Consult a Professional: Here at Ventre, we specialize in drafting these documents and providing an attentive and respectful atmosphere for you to start having these difficult conversations.

4. Communicate Your Wishes: Share your plans with your family to ensure everyone understands and respects your decisions. Ventre will help pass this information along to local hospitals and care facilities.

By addressing these issues now with Ventre, you can prevent your unfinished business from becoming a burden to those you care about most. Preparing for the unexpected isn’t just a legal task—it’s an act of love and responsibility.

– Vitor Bautista 01/21/2025